Antonio and Gratitude

Although Antonio is a small character in Twefth Night, he teaches us one of Shakespeares' most important lessons.

In this play which hinges on mistaken identity, Antonio rescues Sebastian and, in doing so, saves his life.

Following this, he lends Sebastian money so that he can reach to shore safely and settle down.

As the play progresses, Antonio is arrested and convicted of being a pirate.

After his arrest, he meets with the twin of Sebastian (although he believes it is Sebastian).

Upon reminding him of the debt, Sebastian's twin naturally does not pay back the debt because, in his eyes, there is none.

In this situation, many people would forget the actual virtue in helping someone out. They will begin to list everything that they have ever done for them.

Antonio, however, in his widom understands that if his actions were not recognised as being noble, it does not matter how rationally he argues his case, no words will add to his case. Antonio realised that giving and receiving, although they are two different sides to the same concept, are often two totally different things.

Throughout our lives, we are always giving and receiving. Whether we realise this or not, we give and take countless times during the way. By cooking a meal or by helping another, we give. By accepting a gift or a favour, we receive. What constitutes our success is the way in which we give and take. These two acts are, in many ways, an artform. In Twelfth Night, Antonio teaches us the true art of giving, which is to give as if you do not expect anything in return.